by purplewolf » Mon Jun 07, 2010 11:32 pm
Need somewhere safe to vent and this is the only place I know these days.
Men can be so stupid.
Backstory: I went away with the Hub crew and my partner couldn't get the same time off work. He could get later in the same week but not the start so he decided to go away on his own. He ended up going with one of his female friends. Two points to note: 1) He had asked her out previously well before we even met, nothing ever happened as she wasn't interested in him and 2) He knows I'm jealous of her and have been from the start.
When he gets home he's showing me photo's. I'm uncomfortable with photo's of just the two of them but suck it up. Then come the photo's from a night they got drunk together in a hotel room. They end up taking photo's of each other. He's topless in all of them. Her's there's cleavage shots then ones where she's just wearing pants and a towel around her top, or rather just covering her front in some of them. I get upset, we have a fight because he can't understand that what he did was wrong, regardless if it meant nothing and was just because they were drunk.
Current Vent: The two of us have started dance classes, something we've wanted to do together for ages. This morning while we were getting ready for work he asks if he can invite her to the dance classes!!! For one thing I asked him not to see her for a while until my high levels of insecurity settle down. Not to mention the fact that at this class it's small enough that all the guys dance with all the girls. I can't believe he'd he stupid enough to think that me seeing them dance together would be anything but horrible for me.
Of course I said I didn't want her there so he goes on to ask if he can invite her to his sisters birthday party on the weekend at our house! I then told him he can if he wants but there's no way I'll be in a good mood if she's there. I continued getting ready for work and he got the message pretty clearly that I was annoyed at him.
Oh another thing. While they were away she also had a boyfriend but they have since split up. That doesn't help the whole trust issues.
Well I don't really feel any better after venting like I hoped I would but I did need to get it out somewhere.

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